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christmas 2011

January 10th, 2012 | Posted by Bryn
icicle lights

christmas! ah, christmas. it feels weird to recall it now, since it seems like it all happened months ago in a whirlwind of ribbon and wrapping paper. it always goes too fast, doesn’t it?

anyway.

the timing of our christmas celebrations has always worked out extremely well (thank goodness, as it’s favorable to avoid drama whenever possible). we spend christmas eve with ryan’s mom’s side of the family, christmas day with mine and the day after christmas with ryan’s dad. we even added a little something new to our holiday this year: christmas eve breakfast at the ginns <3

let me rewind a few weeks. the season got off to a jumpstart the weekend after thanksgiving when ryan strung icicle lights outside (so pretty) and we bought our christmas tree, the first in our new house.

hanging ornaments

during that same week, ellie and i gave ryan an evening to himself and went with my parents to the tilden park merry-go-round to see it all done up in lights for the holidays. it was beautiful! we braved the cold long enough to go for two rides, enjoyed some fresh popcorn and, most importantly, each other’s company. i think we’ll make it a tradition!

the rest of december flew by. we decorated cookies with friends, took pictures with santa at the mall and partook in other fun christmas-type activities. the next thing we knew, it was the morning of christmas eve and we were enjoying a delicious homemade breakfast with our favorite couple, matt and alyssa. it was cozy, relaxing and the perfect way to start the holiday. we were so happy to be invited.

after breakfast we went back home for a bit before heading over to ryan’s mom’s house in our pajamas (danielle’s idea, and one we all embraced). we enjoyed another delicious meal and then sat down to open the piles of presents that surrounded the tree. we all spoiled each other, as families often do, and ellie (the most spoiled of all because she is the baby) was in absolute heaven.

danielle + ellie

we arrived home late that night, but not too late to put out cookies, milk and carrots. ellie woke up bright and early the next morning, and ryan made sure to have his iphone ready to record her reaction to the sight that santa had come.

christmas morning

after presents, breakfast and a little play time, we headed over to my mom and dad’s for more family time and yes, more presents! the best part was when my dad opened his new computer from my mom. most expensive gift ever! well, except for that time she bought him the mercedes … just kidding. needless to say, he was happy.

from there we drove an hour and a half to my aunt and uncle’s house for christmas dinner. it was good to see both them and my cousins, since we hadn’t spent time together for a good six months. the company was good and the prime rib dinner was delicious.

pop + ellie

as burnt out as we may have felt after the initial marathon of christmas eve and christmas day, we drove home and woke up refreshed the next morning, ready to make the three-hour drive to ryan’s dad’s house in the foothills. it’s always a special treat to spend time with geoff, rodi and the girls. it was really nice to see miss lily, too, who has gotten so much bigger since her birthday! we opened our third round of presents, enjoyed yet another feast and called it a night by the wood burning stove.

family <3

ryan really hit the nail on the head in his earlier post about being a parent at christmastime. i know i haven’t enjoyed christmas morning quite so much since i was little. the very best part of the holiday season, aside from all the time spent with loved ones, is the light in ellie’s eyes, watching her imagination work in overdrive when we talk about santa and his reindeer, snowmen, stockings and christmas morning. there really is no greater joy.

christmas morning

hope you all had a warm and cozy holiday season <3

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a season behind

January 9th, 2012 | Posted by Bryn

that’s right … an entire season!

i have infinite good things to say about this past fall: the half moon bay pumpkin festival, all the halloween parties we attended in october (including our niece lily’s first birthday), trick-or-treating with our own little bumblebee, our newest mother/daughter hobby: messy art with the parks + rec department, our ride on the ferry to pier 39, our annual photoshoot with the amazing niki du, our three thanksgiving dinners (my first turkey!) and MORE, but that would take a solid few days of focus and, let’s face it, i’m just not motivated enough to commit to that.

*INHALE* so, let’s go the lazy route and look at a few photos.

the pumpkin festival was fantastic. we walked main street and took in the arts + crafts, ellie got her face painted for the first time, and she and pop danced in the streets. we left with a trunk full of pumpkins “because,” ryan insisted, “we have a HOUSE now.” gotta keep that front porch festive :)

love face paint dancing "hi, mom!" picking pumpkins

trick-or-treating was wonderful. we opted to stick to our own neighborhood and get a feel for our new neighbors instead of meeting up with friends. ellie did great and was polite as ever with her pleases and thank yous before she ran home to check out her loot.

bees wear shoes? heeeeey!

we took the ferry to san francisco with my mom a few weeks back. it was ellie’s first time on a boat and, while she wasn’t as impressed as i thought she might be, she really enjoyed herself at pier 39. she was fascinated by the sea lions, thrilled to ride the double-decker merry-go-round, and very pleased with her first churro.

waiting for the ferry watching the pelican watching sea lions waving churro time

a few days after our ferry boat experience, my lovely friend and former coworker niki came out to our house to take our annual family photos.

chair chair

she did such an incredible job shooting ellie last year, i couldn’t wait for her to work her magic again! while ellie was a little more difficult this time around (much more independent, defiant and, you know, AGE 2), niki still managed to snap some real gems, photos ryan and i will cherish for a lifetime. thank you, niki!

christmas lights christmas lights

thanksgiving wrapped up our cozy autumn with big family feasts at ryan’s dad’s house, ryan’s mom’s house, and my parents at our house. wine tasting in camino, seeing kyle, tai and danielle, and making my first thanksgiving turkey were some of the highlights.

wine tasting with the lacks grandma + ellie ryan + bryn chatting pliny pass the mash!

i’m glad ryan posted a little something about christmas. i’ll go into more detail in a later post, but in the meantime …

family
happy new year!
from our family to yours <3
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being a parent

December 28th, 2011 | Posted by Ryan

i posted this to facebook the day after christmas but since it was an ‘in the moment’ sentiment i wanted to capture it in some sort of formal way. so, i’m including it here.

merry christmas!

my cup runneth over. merry christmas, everyone.

this was the first christmas we really were able to incorporate the concept of santa with ellie. she really got it and even spoke to him when she sat on his lap, explaining what she wanted for christmas (“a belle barbie”).

but i just have to say, never before have i felt we were witnessing the true innocence and imagination of our daughter until this experience. listening to her talk about how she’s been a good girl and what she wanted. her explanation of how he was going to eat the cookies and drink the milk to her asking “where is he?” on christmas morning to the look on her face when she saw what he had brought for her. it was really amazing. and look, we know “the reason for the season” but i couldn’t help but feel like this, too, is what it’s all about.

it has never felt so good to be a dad.

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ellie’s first fireworks

August 6th, 2011 | Posted by Bryn
at first she was scared, said she didn’t want to see them.

watching fireworks

but from the very first BOOM, she was in love. she talked about them every day for weeks.

fireworks fireworks

can’t wait until next year :)

4th of july

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rewind to father’s day

July 5th, 2011 | Posted by Bryn

father’s day was so great this year! actually, it’s great every year because we get to spoil daddy and that’s always fun, but this father’s day was especially great because we went back to the roots of ryan’s *first* father’s day and met my dad and danny at tilden for a little merry-go-round and steam train riding.

we made ryan a really big cereal bowl at color me mine a few weeks back, so he opened that and was totally thrilled by it. he also loved the accompanying cereal we picked out … lucky charms and reese’s puffs, aka processed sugar in a box!

reading cards bowl for daddy

we started out the morning with breakfast at home with robert and shirley and then made our way over to berkeley to meet my dad and danny at the steam trains. it was warm in the sun and comfortable in the shade, the perfect weather for a train ride.

love them all <3
ellie & daddy

after the trains we headed over to the merry-go-round. ellie wanted to go THREE TIMES! so, of course, we indulged her.

pretty pose

thanks for spending the day with us, dad and danny! we had a blast.

pop & ellie danny & dad
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for the dads

June 19th, 2011 | Posted by Bryn

happy father’s day to all the wonderful dads out there, especially ellie’s daddy, her three amazing grandfathers and her great-grandfather <3 we hope you know how much we love you, admire you and appreciate you, today and every day.

daddy & ellie
ellie & daddy
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mother’s day 2011

May 19th, 2011 | Posted by Bryn

i’m really behind in this blogging thing. i’m not the one on crutches, you’d think i’d have my act together. so, why don’t we talk about my third mother’s day? it was a lovely day filled with family and activities and also some much anticipated relaxation.

we started off the day with brunch at the farmer restaurant at the pleasanton hotel, a very cute place with a FABULOUS brunch buffet that none of us had ever been to, on main street in downtown pleasanton. we even had invitations made for all eight people in our party. so fun.

mommy & ellie
orchid from danny

it was wonderful to celebrate with both my mom and ryan’s mom in the same place at the same time so the rest of the day we could all go off and do our own things without feeling guilty about who didn’t see whom because they were busy seeing whomever else and all that drama. i think we should do a brunch just like it every year (although maybe somewhere a little less expensive, heeeh).

the ladies the gentlemen

after brunch we came home and when ellie woke up from her nap we made pink lemonade! you know, the frozen kind you add water to? haha. ellie enjoyed the stirring part :)

then i decided i wanted to get out of the house and enjoy the beautiful day, so we drove down the road to lone tree cemetery and did a little rock and twig hunting and exploration. it was suuuuper windy, but ryan and i both took some cute pictures to document our fun.

mommy & ellie
mommy & ellie
at the lookout
up above
happy
lone tree
on the grass

and that was that! thank you to my loves, ryan and ellie, for making me feel so special that day <3 i love you so much!

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